Jumping up is a deeply ingrained, natural behavior for dogs. When they greet, they often do so face-to-face, and a jump is a surefire way to get attention. While this is perfectly normal canine communication, from a human perspective, it can be quite bothersome, potentially even hazardous. Muddy paws can ruin clothes, and enthusiastic leaps can easily knock over children or seniors. Teaching your dog a more appropriate way to greet people is not only more polite but also significantly safer.
Understanding Why Dogs Jump to Greet
Dogs are driven to repeat behaviors that bring them positive reinforcement. For most dogs, your attention is one of the most rewarding things they can receive. This also applies to other family members, guests, and even strangers. Even negative reactions, such as yelling or physically pushing your dog away, are still forms of attention and can inadvertently reinforce the jumping behavior. For many dogs, being pushed away can even feel like a form of play or a wrestling game.
To effectively curb jumping, it’s crucial to remove the rewards associated with it. This involves managing your dog’s environment to prevent them from practicing the unwanted behavior and simultaneously teaching them a desirable alternative greeting.
Teaching an Alternative Greeting Behavior
Theoretically, if you consistently ignore your dog when they jump, the behavior should eventually cease as it’s no longer being rewarded. However, this approach has limitations. Not everyone you encounter will be aware of or willing to follow these rules. Moreover, it can be frustrating for your dog to be left without a clear understanding of what is expected. Therefore, it’s essential to actively teach them what to do instead.
The ideal greeting behavior is a personal choice. You might simply want your dog to keep all four paws on the ground, or you might prefer them to sit or lie down when meeting people. The key is to clearly communicate what you want your dog to do, rather than solely focusing on what not to do. For instance, teaching a “sit” for greetings is far easier for a dog to grasp than an abstract concept like “don’t jump.”
Training the “Four on the Floor” Greeting
This method teaches your dog to keep all four paws on the ground during greetings by rewarding them with treats placed on the floor. The goal is to preemptively reward your dog for staying grounded, thus preventing the impulse to jump. Follow these steps to train “four on the floor”:
- Have a helper approach your dog while your dog is on a leash.
- Just before the person reaches your dog, toss several treats onto the floor.
- While your dog is occupied eating from the floor, have the person calmly pet and greet them.
- Before your dog finishes the treats, have the person step back, ending the greeting.
- After several repetitions, repeat the process. This time, extend the greeting duration, continuing to scatter treats on the floor throughout.
- Once your dog reliably keeps all four feet on the ground, allow them to greet the person before you place the first treat on the floor.
- As your dog progresses, gradually reduce the number of treats given until the greeting itself becomes the primary reward.
The success of this technique hinges on your speed with the treats. You must anticipate your dog’s jumping behavior and offer the reward before they can lift off. If you’re too slow and your dog jumps, have the person turn and walk away while you cease providing treats. Over time, your dog will learn that keeping all four paws on the floor leads to attention and rewards, while jumping results in nothing.

Training “Sit” for Greetings
Another excellent and appropriate greeting behavior is for your dog to sit for attention and hellos. Similar to the “four on the floor” method, your dog will associate sitting with receiving praise and interaction. When they stand up, the attention stops. Here’s how to train “sit” for greetings:
- Secure your dog’s leash to a doorknob or a sturdy piece of furniture.
- From a few feet away, ask your dog to sit. Once they comply, approach calmly. If they stand up, return to your starting point and ask for the sit again. If they remain seated, approach and offer quiet praise and petting. Continue the greeting as long as they stay sitting. As soon as they stand, turn and disengage.
- As your dog becomes proficient at sitting for greetings with you, gradually increase the excitement level of your approach.
- Once your dog consistently sits for greetings with you, enlist friends and family members to practice these steps.
The more your dog practices sitting, the easier this exercise will become. Teaching “sit” for greetings is most effective when your dog already understands and performs the sit command reliably, even with distractions. A strong “sit” command should be the foundation for polite greetings, just as it is for other everyday requests like going outside or receiving their meal.

Preventing Jumping While You Train
While actively teaching your dog an appropriate greeting behavior, it’s crucial to manage their environment to prevent them from practicing the unwanted jumping. For instance, if your dog has a solid “go to your place” cue, you can direct them to their mat or crate whenever the doorbell rings. Alternatively, installing a dog gate at your entrance can effectively restrict access to visitors. Keeping your dog on a leash whenever guests arrive can also provide the necessary control to prevent jumping.
Another effective management strategy involves having toys and treats readily available near the front door. You can toss a reward away from the doorway to occupy your dog while your visitor enters. Your guest can also use the treat or toy to reward your dog for a polite greeting.
Preventing jumping can be particularly challenging when you’re walking your dog, as you cannot expect strangers to adhere to your training rules. Until your dog has mastered polite greetings with familiar people, it’s advisable to avoid close interactions with strangers. Instead, redirect your dog’s attention with a “watch me” cue or by using a squeaky toy to keep them engaged as the stranger passes.
When your dog is ready to practice greeting people on the street, clearly communicate your expectations to passersby. Ask them to ignore your dog if they fail to follow the established rules. With consistent practice and clear communication, your dog will soon learn to greet politely, whether at your doorstep or out on the sidewalk.
Conclusion
Teaching your dog not to jump on people is a process that requires patience, consistency, and a clear understanding of canine behavior. By managing their environment, actively teaching alternative behaviors like “four on the floor” or “sit,” and ensuring consistent reinforcement, you can guide your dog towards more appropriate greetings. Remember, the goal is to replace an attention-seeking behavior with a polite and safe way for your dog to interact with others. If you’re struggling to make progress, don’t hesitate to seek guidance from a professional dog trainer who can provide personalized strategies for your specific needs.
