Losing a beloved canine companion is an experience that leaves an indelible mark on our hearts, creating a void that feels impossibly vast. The author, having recently experienced the profound loss of their two oldest dogs, Ralphie and Kaylee, shares how the simple yet powerful book, For Every Dog An Angel by Christine Davis, provided a much-needed source of comfort and catharsis during their grief. This book offers a unique perspective on the life and spirit of our canine friends, reminding us of the enduring bond we share with them.
The narrative of For Every Dog An Angel introduces the comforting concept of a guardian angel for each puppy, present from birth to death, sharing in their joys and soothing their sorrows. It beautifully illustrates the special connection between a dog and their “forever human,” a friendship that transcends time, space, and other relationships. The book tenderly describes the dog’s journey across the Rainbow Bridge to be with their angel when their time comes, with the promise that their human will eventually join them. A particularly poignant idea is that a dog’s spirit may occasionally cross back to visit their beloved human, a gentle reminder of their continued presence.
Christine Davis’s whimsical artwork beautifully complements the short, touching story, bringing the emotional depth of the narrative to life. The author found this book particularly helpful in processing their grief, as it encourages focusing on the entirety of a dog’s life—the cherished memories alongside the inevitable sadness. While the loss of their dear friends was immense, the author cherishes the twelve and six-and-a-half wonderful years they shared, a testament to the enduring impact of these beloved pets.
The author reflects on their personal beliefs as an atheist, finding solace not in an afterlife, but in the power of keeping loved ones alive in memory. Ralphie and Kaylee, though physically gone, continue to live on in the author’s heart, their spirits evoked in everyday moments and in the unique traits of their other dogs. Glimpses of Kaylee can be seen in her rescued companion Jayne, in the adoring gaze of O-Ren, and the striking resemblance of Mags. The author fondly recalls Kaylee’s favorite resting spots, like the dog bed in the master bathroom or a sunny spot on the office couch beside Ralph, illustrating how deeply these pets are woven into the fabric of their lives. The question of whether these visits are real or imagined becomes secondary to the comfort they bring.
One minor point of constructive criticism offered is Davis’s use of pronouns. The author suggests that referring to nonhuman animals as “it” subtly reinforces a perception of them as objects rather than sentient beings, a sentiment echoed in discussions about animal personhood and the emotional lives of pets.
For Every Dog An Angel serves as a profound reminder of the unconditional love and profound companionship that dogs bring into our lives. While the pain of loss is undeniable, the memories and the spirit of our beloved pets endure, offering comfort and a continued connection. For those navigating the difficult terrain of pet loss, this book offers a gentle, beautifully illustrated pathway to remembering and cherishing the extraordinary lives of our canine family members. It encourages a focus on the love shared and the lasting impact they have, even after they have crossed the bridge.
The sentiments expressed in For Every Dog An Angel resonate deeply with anyone who has experienced the unique and irreplaceable bond with a dog. It acknowledges the pain of separation while celebrating the richness these animals bring to our existence. For further exploration into the human-animal bond and resources for pet owners, consider looking into resources like how to train your dog book or beagle and wolf books which delve into different facets of canine companionship. While this book focuses on the spiritual aspect of a dog’s life, understanding dog behavior and training can further deepen our appreciation and connection with our pets.
